Agada Lulu

Ah! People are seeing me with one kind eyes oh🤷 So you think I can not fall in love ni🤣 So you feel like, I don't need a man abi🙋 So you think I don't need to talk about having babies? 😏 So you think having a family of my own will be heavy on me?😂 Abi you thought that I was created with no reproductive organs?🤫🙈 Abeg oh!  Make una free me for una mind fa, no be only me waka come this life and no be only me go live in this life. I must graduate from one level to another. Don't be surprised when you see my wedding invitation card, e no concern you who I go marry, that one na my business. Make e no shock you if you see me with my baby bump, that is my concern Make e no shock you, make e no shock you oh Disability is not barrenness. Disability is not inability. Disability is not unromantic. Disability is not sexually dead. Stop feeling that way about people with disability.  # Voiceforthedisabled

I have always known that God has created a wonderful soul. I'm the best for am not bothered about the opinion anyone may have. Wonderfully and carefully made is the song on my lips, for there is no  creation of me without HIS knowledge. Don't get scared if you see me post, reveiling my disability. Don't even think that backsliding is close to my door, God and I knows how we do our things .   Disability caption on the bit and don't forget that, I just want to appreciate my disability. Being open with it is lifting and happiness and not nakedness. I don't want people to begin to see me differently because of this new style and don't forget that I never knew that I can be this Free. I was known by oversized clothes but now, I will wear whatever pleases my eyes and heart but not nakedness. All I need is wonderful souls around me, please be someone I can lay on to cry when it's time to cry and be someone I can celebrate with when it is celebration tim...

I could recall, Those days that I hate footwear Those days that I was Afraid to wear my siblings footwears with the fear of turning the right leg old than the other Those days that I was shy of wearing footwear Those days I will lose Interest to go out because of footwear Those days I prefer cheap and non attractive footwears, but mom will still buy the one her heart likes. I thought it was all a waste of money. Some people who believes is a good idea to ask, will be like ' ah😮, so you use one pair of shoes, what will then happen to the other one? And I will be like is at home and it is not possible to get only one pair of shoe or do you want me to carry it around like an handbag🤷 Some will be like' this footwear is expensive for you to use only one pair and I will be like' oh goodness🤦, my mom bought it for me, she didn't collect the money from you or anyone else, bye bye🤣  I was myopic then and I have come to know that nothing can ever be a waste for me. Now that ...

For decades, researchers bought into society’s belief that men have higher desire than women, since large studies consistently prove that finding. But more recent evidence reveals that differences between the sexes may actually be more nuanced or even non-existent, depending on how you define and attempt to calculate desire. Some studies have even found that men in relationships are as likely as women to be the member of the couple with the lower level of sexual desire. What do women want? despite decades spent trying to answer this riddle, researchers are yet to land on an agreed definition of female desire, let alone come close to fully understanding how it works. scientists are realising the more that female desire cannot be summarised in terms of a single experience: it varies both between women and within individuals, and it spans a highly diverse spectrum of manifestations. As Beverly Whipple, a professor at Rutgers University, says: “Every woman wants something different.” For d...

I have heard so many things spoken directly to my ears🙆 because of this disability thing🤦 I had this Bestie in my life in the year 2019-2020, we were good friends and he was physically and materially there for me. While I was there for him in the other faze of life. One day, we were having a chit chat and all of a sudden, bestie reluctantly said something that got me surprised even till now. Conversation: BESTIE: Lucy carry my baby na,  ME: you say what?🙄 BESTIE: I know that you and I are not dating but I have come to know you better than I even know my dating partner. ME: I don't know where you are getting that idea from but I just pray that idea leaves you now BESTIE: am very serious Lucy, I want you to be part of my life indirectly and I promise you that I will care for you and the baby, you will lack nothing ME: wait are you for real?  Like seriously? So you want me to become a single mom with no husband? How do you expect me to agree to that? What will I tell my parent...

It was really a huge fun during my child hood. What always makes me smile anytime I think about my child hood is: As a child with disability fighting is never possible but my mouth works like razor blade.  I could remember when an age mate of my a boy precisely, raised the thought of being a child with disability, kaih🤦 I was so sad about it so I started crying, I cried out so loud that his family members came out of the house and asked what happened, I told them a different story because I wanted them to flog the hell out of him so he won't say that to me next time and honestly his uncle dealt with him mercilessly. Later in the day, I met and I told him sorry why? Because I saw how disappointed he was that I had to lie so he could be punished. We spoke about my amputation and I told him that I don't like it when people believe that I can't do anything and that was what he did in the afternoon. Since then he respects my opinions and believes that I can do anyt...

I could clearly recall those years my lovely mother used to back me anytime she noticed that I was tired of walking, that woman is indeed sacrificial to her seed. I in return will be like mummy ' am not tired' while I am sweating profusely and my armpit hurt so bad BUT shyness will not allow me to agree at once. My mother will still insist that I should climb her back and I will be like' people the see us oh, the go say this big mama dey still climb her mother back abi she want break the woman back'? My mother will just say don't worry about that, it is my back and not theirs and besides they understand and they have eyes to see. Growing up as a child with crutches is never a thing I can pray for my enemies because life with crutches is so hard especially with wooden crutches on the armpit, Kai🤦. Not until I became a big girl who can do little work to earn a money, trekking was  part of me no matter how far the trekking was and at the end I will start to cry and pr...

My parent are the two EARTHLY persons I have so dear to my heart that, no matter what, they still appreciate everything about me. No matter what I wear, my parent will still say that It looks good on me especially my mom. These creations were the best thing that God has blessed me with and I thank God for that. These two persons were there for me even before I was born and they were by my side when I needed earthly comfort in my most challenging times as a little child. They contributed their time, money, strength and prayers for me to get well and strong. Their love has never failed. I will always pray to have them as my parent over and over again. My parent are not financially strong but, they make sure I had a primary and secondary education and in return I had to push more and more to get what they can't afford for me.  Am proud that am not weak. Am proud that I have right to do what ever I desire. Am proud that I Love God. Am proud that I am the first child to five beautiful y...

Have you heard of a young single physically challenged lady called Lucy Agada.  I hail from benue State okpokwu LGA precisely.  I only love academics and I believe that I will get it done completely someday.  I have so many dreams and they are yet to be completed. I love music, modelling, humanitarian etc My height is 153cm, Am chubby, Chocolate in complexion, Living an amputation life, Am not an extrovert nor an introvert. Am in between. I love to work no matter how little the money is. Am single and still waiting and I believe love will find me soon. Love that will take me forward and not backward.  Love that will appreciate my flaws and remain.

Living the life the way it pleases me as long as it doesn't offend God. This is the best creation as long as I can remember. There is nothing as biggest as being thankful no matter how little.   I appreciate everything around me because they are what keeps me going no matter what?  I still have not forgotten that I am a light and that I must shy. I can't embrace darkness because of this little physical challenge rather, I stand for light and it can not be hidden.  I must be seen and heard, yes! I must be seen for positivity. I am the GOLD found in positivity  I am AGADA LUCY a Nigerian , I love myself even though I don't know how to love myself better.  I am a future degree holder, a future wife, a future mom and a humanitarian in the making. I remain a light and I must shine Drop your comments

Her shape is confusing 🙆 She is not even big in body size😁 She is one legged 🤣 Her bowleg doesn't exist 😋 She just have a national diploma result 😛😂 She is not even smart and sharp😄 Introvert girl😂 BUT with just national diploma result I stand and talk with PhDs😎 besides, I will still go back to it😄🤣 I'm a song goddess🤩 My voice doesn't exist 😂 I have a handwork ☺️ My computer literacy is improving day by day 😆😯 Writing is my energy 😅 Introvert but I still do what is expected of me 😛 I don't beg on the street 🤗 Children from my womb is the only achievement I have not gotten 😊🙏 But I still love children I find around me, they are my friend

Yes oh I came out of the self stigma and hiding. I can't be completely blamed for feeling bad about having a disability because that was how I was raised up as a child and I tend to grow up with this mentality that I need to hide my disability. Dresses my mama bought for me are always oversized and shapeless, her thought was to hide the bad legs. Hiding the disability didn't stop people from looking at me anywhere I go to, it just confused there sight and mind. Some people will even go to the extent of asking me questions like, what happened to your legs? why are you wearing a cloth bigger than you? why are you always on a flat footwear? etc. These questions never gives me joy rather it reminds me of how different I was and it makes me cry innerly. If I can wear oversized clothes and people still see the disability, then I can wear fitted clothes to, so I thought. Boomed am out to wear anything that crossed my mind, but I started with my two younger sisters clothes because I do...

This baby was born and infected with breast milk because mama got pregnant so fast and I was so tender and small not to be breast feeded. Breast feeding me after being pregnant was out of ignorance because mama was a very little girl who married to a far land so grandma couldn't make it for the babysitting to be able to teach and direct mama. I walked when I was 9months old, mama told me that I was so full of energy and very beautiful baby. But breast milk infected me and I began to lose my energy, i became so sick that I couldn't eat not drink. Parent were left with no choice but to take me to the hospital where drugs and injection were prescribed for me.  I was placed on 5times injection daily, but the devil used one of the health personel to inject me wrong so it got me paralyzed for many months and by recovery I started walking again but this time around the bone were weak, so they started to shift in an unpleasant and unexpected way making me to have both knocked knee and ...

Living the life the way it pleases me as long as it doesn't offend God. This is the best creation as long as I can remember. There is nothing as biggest as being thankful no matter how little.   I appreciate everything around me because they are what keeps me going no matter what?  I still have not forgotten that I am a light and that I must shy. I can't embrace darkness because of this little physical challenge rather, I stand for light and it can not be hidden.  I must be seen and heard, yes! I must be seen for positivity. I am the GOLD found in positivity  I am AGADA LUCY a Nigeria, I love myself even though I don't know how to love myself better.  I am a future degree holder, a future wife, a future mom and a humanitarian in the making. I remain a light and I must shine Drop your comments

Have you heard of a young single physically challenged lady called Lucy Agada.  I hail from benue State okpokwu LGA precisely.  I only love academics and I believe that I will get it done completely someday.  I have so many dreams and they are yet to be completed. I love music, modelling, humanitarian etc My height is 153cm, Am chubby, Chocolate in complexion, Living an amputation life, Am not an extrovert not an introvert. Am in between. I love to work no matter how little the money is. Am single and still waiting and I believe love will find me soon. Love that will take me forward and not backward.  Love that will appreciate my flaws and remain. Beautiful smiling lady